Patrick Downes & Jessica Kensky and Adrianne Haslet-Davis
On April 15, 2013 their lives changed. While at the finish line of the Boston Marathon, then recently married and Boston area natives, Patrick and Jessica were there to enjoy the day. It was that day they became victims of the Tsarnaev brothers first bomb in their bombing attack.
It was that day Adrianne fell victim to the second bomb in the attack, opening her eyes to find her left ankle and foot missing. A professional dancer, she was looking at her life’s work and direction irrevocably changed in an instant
This year they demonstrated ridiculous resilience when Patrick became the first marathon bombing survivor to come back to the race and finish it on foot. Through it all, Patrick and Jessica have stayed together and become stronger. Three years after the attacks, Jessica is still undergoing surgeries. He’s lost a leg. She’s a double amputee. This is still a fresh wound for them both. Adrianne also lost a leg and took up running because of her injuries – not in spite of them.
Patrick didn’t know it, but he finished the race at just about the time the bombs first went off that fateful day completing the race in 5:56:46
“[When I first started] learning how to use the blade, I made a pact with myself that I would at least try to run. I [thought], ‘Gosh, this blade is so difficult to use,’ so I decided to make it a challenge that I would overcome.” Adrianne Haslet-Davis
Adrianne too was at the 2015 Boston Marathon, as a dance performer at the finish line. This year it took her about 10-hours to run her race. Less than a year after the bombing, she performed on Dancing with the Stars. From the beginning she knew she was in for a challenge. She accepted it, and worked on advancing. She did not quit.
Neither were runners previously but have used their life experience. All of them could have easily succumbed to the ease of “giving up.” They could have easily have made excuses for themselves, to feel sorry for their condition, to allow themselves to hate the Tsanaevs for what had happened to them.
When you focus on hate, you don’t allow yourself to grow, to change, to rise above. All three of these people have risen to become more powerful, more inspirational than they were before. Patrick was running to raise money – $250,000 – to fully endow a scholarship for disabled students. Adrianne was running to raise money for Limbs for Life, a charity for providing prosthetics for those who cannot afford them.
JUST IN: #BostonMarathon Survivor, leg amputee & dancer Adrianne Haslet crosses finish line@cbsboston pic.twitter.com/QpTjoaqwpD
— Chantee Lans WBZ (@ChanteeLans) April 18, 2016
There is nothing routine about completing a marathon. There is nothing routine about experiencing life changing circumstances, and resolving to accept the challenge. There is nothing routine about accomplishing goals and then setting them higher. It takes mental fortitude, resilience, and commitment. And ANYONE can do it, but not everyone does.